It™s easy to sneer at the big rock conventions, but I™ll give one of ˜em some credit. In 1994, I attended South By Southwest in Austin, TX — the city where I now live — and saw two bands for the first time that I™d end up working with over the course of the following 12 years — though a couple of record labels and continents. One of ˜em, Spoon, weren™t actually on the official SXSW bill and played a renegade gig at a renegade drag queen bar. The other, the Seattle-based / Montana-spawned Silkworm, had no such drag queen connections, performed on the smaller of two stages at Emo™s, the 6th Street nightclub where I spent most of this past Friday night selling t-shirts and CD™s.
Mission Of Burma played there this past Friday and it was a great show, enhanced in no small part by the room™s CBGB-in-100-degree-heat ambience. But the occasion was far from celebratory for a few of us. Burma had shared a stage & dressing room with Silkworm on prior occasions and are a mere degree of seperation from the band on the Pete Frame rock family tree. Some had heard what happened the prior afternoon — that Silkworm™s Michael Dahlquist, and two friends (workmates and fellow musicians, Doug Meis and John Glick) were killed in Skokie, IL, the victims of a automobile collision caused by a woman trying to end her own life.
(photograph by Heather Whinna)
Amidst everything else zipping through my brain on Friday night — while trying to answer questions from drunken oafs like œdo these shirts come in sizes? — I was momentarily transported back to the first time I saw Silkworm (above) play in that very building. Laure Parsons had encouraged me to check them out (not so much out of record label scouting nonsense, but because she liked them and perhaps thought I would too) and I was skeptical. I knew next to nothing about Silkworm. I knew they were from Seattle (strike one!). I knew that a guy from a Seattle radio station had a hand in releasing their first EP (strike two!) and their first 7 featured Comsat Angels and Fleetwood Mac covers (in the words of Hawk Harrelson, œgrab some bench).
Oh yeah, I also knew they wore suits onstage. And the dry cleaning bill must™ve been a motherfucker.
To say that I™d previously missed the boat on this band would™ve been a huge understatement. I was only vaguely aware of their recorded output until that point, having failed to even open any of the packages they or numerous friends had sent me over the years. A cursory pre-gig spin of the current-at-the-time ˜In The West™, however, was no small indication that I™d goofed. The songs were fantastic. The playing, inventive, but never obtrusive. And there was something really intriguing about the three different songwriters/singers and the way their differing styles clashed and intersected.
I can count on one hand — maybe Antonio Alfonseca™s pitching paw — the number of times a band has so completely destroyed my preconceptions as Silkworm did that night playing to a 2/3™rds full club of biz creeps and longtime fans. Yeah, they wore suits. Guitarist/vocalist Joel Phelps — who would leave the band soon afterwards (and would go on to make some devastatingly haunting recordings with his Downer Trio in the years that followed), sat facing his amp for the songs he wasn™t playing. Bassist/vocalist Tim Midgett — playing a sternum-shattering Travis Bean — seemed to be a classic rock songwriter with a quick wit and keen insight on a multitude of subject matter. Guitarist/vocalist Andy Cohen was a soloist whose excursions — equal parts Verlaine, Hendrix and Coltrane —never came at the expense of the songs. As a lyricist, he seemed to have a frightening obsession with war (as the years went by, I learned he had frightening obsessions with all sorts of things).
In the middle of all this was Michael Dahlquist. I can™t remember if he was still in the suit or he™d already graduated to the shorts-and-gardening-gloves ensemble that was his longtime trademark. But surrounded by world-class players, Michael stood out, big time. I™m not sure I™ve ever heard a louder drummer or one more capable of pushing what would™ve already been a very good band into the realm of greatness. I remembered seeing Chuck Biscuits duing his brief tenure in one of the later Circle Jerks lineups, and as wretched as that band was, Biscuits was so ridiculously good, I™d have paid just to see him play. Michael was just as hot, except there was far more to his repitoire than mere pummeling.
In short, they tied-it-all-together like nobody I™d ever heard or seen. And they continued to do so, even after Joel™s departure (and later, with Matt Kadane™s arrival) and in the face of less and less public and media interest over the years.
I feel absolutely privileged to have known these guys, and the sort of friendship they™ve shown me is hardly exclusive to industry characters. Through considerable ups and downs, numerous relocations, bounces through as many record labels as Jimmy Jackson™s played for NBA teams, Silkworm stayed focused on making great records and playing terrific shows, but always treating their fans with all too-rare respect and courtesy.
Tim said in one of the Chicago papers that Silkworm will not continue without Michael, and I have no doubt that is the right decision. The guy wasn™t just a talented drummer — he was a key, creative force in a band chock full of ˜em. And I apologize if much of this post has come off like cult band memory lane, because it should be stressed that as exceptional a player as Michael truly was, he was even more impressive as a person. I™ve known few individuals as funny or as thoughtful. Even amongst those who only met him a few times, Michael will be missed.
Beyond that, I™ve got little else to say. CSTB will return to its regularly scheduled output of gratuitous insults directed at Tom Sizemore very soon, I promise. But until that time, our thoughts are with Michael™s friends and family, as well as with those of John Glick and Doug Meis.
i only met the man once but i’ve seen him around a bunch of times. the last time was about a month ago at the empty bottle and much like every other time i’d seen him, the people around him were laughing and enjoying themselves. i’m sure it was due to the company they were keeping.
I’m not sure I’ve ever heard a louder drummer…
likewise. at a sm show in milwaukee 3 (4?) years ago tim, andy, and michael jumped on stage for a cover of the hexx, it was perhaps the most powerful 5 minutes of music i’ve ever heard.
GC,
Thank you for putting it all down, Gerard — Michael Dahlquist was great for many reasons and this is a terrible loss.
TC
Tonight, toasting to Michael’s memory, I recalled him always swinging the mic toward himself between songs as Andy would tune, rambling on about something impossibly funny after his simple, near-traditional opening line of, “Hey, can you guys hear me? You can? OK, well…” And then 30 minutes later: “No, Tim, not two more. Not two, I’m just, I’m , oh, Jesus,” and then swiveling the mic away to do not only two more, but probably a third and thenprobably a three-song encore.
It is this magnanimous humor I have missed since the moment I heard the news of his passing; it is really the most I know of Michael before shows, after shows, indulging my autograph seeking, discussing acoustics in far-flung upstate NY venues, shaking our heads as we waited for broken kick-drum replacements in SF, shrugging off everything disappointing and looking forward to everything mysterious and new and strange.
I cherish every memory I have of him and Andy and Tim, and my heart goes out–as it always has, through good and bad–to the entire Silkworm family and to the families of Doug Meis and John Glick.
“I know we don’t look like a family. But in this town, we’re heroes.”
STV
Michael was a great friend and awesome drummer. There were a couple hundred people at his informal wake here, and some of them had travelled great distances to be here. The quality of Michael’s friends is also a testament to him. Salut! Mikey! Salut! His friends!
I would also like to mention, for the record, that Michael was amazing outside the confines of smokey indie rock shows and micro-brew pool halls. I think this is one of the reasons he was so complete and so cool. His friends, fans and admirers would be impressed to know that Michael was an avid outdoorsman and incredible athlete. The guy had the stamina of a migrating elk and prowess of a horny mountain goat in the back country…I’ve never seen anything like it. Michael and Andy completed the strenuous Mountaineers certification course by bagging a dozen or so peaks in the Cascades and Olympics and even summitted Mt. Raineer (which claims an average of 5 lives per year). Michael was also a great snowboarder picking up the sport quicker than anyone I have ever seen.
And then there are the stories he used to tell from his cab driving days in Seattle…
The image burned in my memory of the last time I saw Michael (on the Consonant tour) is of him holding my two week old baby girl in his arms and and looking at her with that huge warm smile of his.
My gawd I miss the guy!
thank you for that, Howard.
More than one person has commented that entry atop reads more more like a eulogy for a favorite rock band than a worthy rememberance of Michael Dahlquist. And for that, I can only apologize. Steve’s done a superior job here :
http://www.chicagoreader.com/pdf/050722/050722_letters.pdf
please feel free to scroll below the Crate & Barrel advertisement. Unless you’re looking for directions to Crate & Barrel.
just wanted to share a Jon Strymish gallery photo link.
really beautiful silkworm
thanks for the words and images.
and steve, thanks for an amazing memorial last week. those of us from shure (where Michael, John and Doug worked) appreciated it.
it’s so much of a cliche but I really can’t believe it’s true that he’s dead. It’s easy to take so many of the losses (minor ones, really) and bury them with Michael D, I mean that so much is gone from that time, from my life, from the world, that Michael touched personally (or tried to touch personally, cue rimshot). And then there is so much I never knew and won’t. About everything, I guess.
Thinking of MD on this sad anniversary. RIP big guy.
Because I lost touch with the Silworm family I just found out via internet.
When I was 16 I lived in the Phlegm house here in Olympia. Michael was a paying resident and such a great role model. He was just so full of passion.
I knew him later in Seattle and he set me up on a blind date with Joel.
Michael always struck me. Struck a chord in me to live, to enjoy living , to be in the present and appreciate what I have, be grateful without groveling, just use what you have been given. Of course I was attracted but he is one of those souls that cannot be possessed. I loved him so dearly near and afar because he seemed to live in the now. He is one of the few people in my life that I do not see for awhile and yet we are still very much friends..no guilt, no games, just appreciating the existence of the other.
I am very sad that I cannot not talk with him again. Yet, knowing him is knowing that everything will be okay. He was one of the few great teachers that do not even know that they are teaching. My love for him exists. And his passion for existence will not end as long as we remember the gifts we have here.
Thank you
Kitty
I met Paul Dahlquist sometime in the late 70s and later I remember his boy goofing in the background somewhere. Motion, lotsa’ motion, hissing energy. His Father and I were usually deeply immersed in a discussion about some arcane chemical composition of silver iodide crystals in modern black and white films and thus I really neglected to observe Michaels mannerisms.
Years later I ran into Paul at a social event, we left the event and wandered off to a bar. Over beers Paul shared with me how he had just come back from visiting his boy in Chicago and how well he finally appeared to be doing. His summoning of a restless sigh of relief for the wont of Fathers to witness a succession of proud men in their family. We parted and I did’nt see Paul for another year or so. It was at another gathering, for which I cannot recall the reason, I ran into Paul. We stood in a corner and he quietly told me of Michaels’ death. He had no tears then, though I sensed his breath short and hesitant, as remarkable restraint against the pressure and burden of his loss. His narrative unfolded in my silence, and I watched him keenly, for any fracture that would require my hand, my arm. He told me of the woman, her mad dash to end her own life that tragically ended the life of his son and his companion instead leaving her to struggle with another punishment. It is after the shock and confusion of such a monumental loss that denial and anger companion their way forward into the language of grief. Paul soothed these encroachments with his humanity and generosity and memory of his love for Michael. There was something wistful and brief that night, perhaps the indication wounds never really heal they simply become disembodied wounds, and forgiveness ponders the eternal even with scorn.